Time to move on....

The tables have turned. The outcomes have changed in a way that I never thought would and I have realized so much about what I want and dont want. "I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know... I'll see again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're trustworthy and honorable -- and into me." "The right man/woman does not need to be reminded that your great." "If he/she says they 'DONT KNOW' then that means"NO!" "I don't know" means "I'm too cowardly to tell you the truth because I can't deal with confrontation." "I don't know" means please do the dirty work for me because I don't want to hurt your feelings even more then I already have." "Cut them off!!" "Dont give them the chance to reject you again." This man/woman took a good long look at the awesomeness that is you, evaluated your relationship together, and said, "No, thanks. I'll try my luck elsewhere. There is going to come a point where you are going to say "BUT HE/SHE WAS SO GREAT!" Yes, and the people who got on the Titanic thought they were going on vacation. Things changed and it's important to remember that they did. Before you look for validation in others, try and find it in yourself. Be happy with who you are... if you have made mistakes, own up to them and take responsibilty. Learn from the mistakes and get back on that bus of life. Maybe one day your paths will join. But until then you can not pull someone on to your bus that doesnt have the desire to go.