Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he is going to treat you like sports fish.

She has bad hair days. She'll buy a new dress at Target and hope it passes for something a little fancier. Sometimes she struggles to make her rent and her car paument in the same month. Because she bought too many shoes? Sometimes. But the only pair of designer shoes she has in her collect is a pair of Christian LaCroiz that she got half-off at a sidewalk sale. Sometiems her friends let her down. they dont always say the right things. And the elusive One That Got Away? She has days when she still cant cut the strings. She has moments of panic when she wonders if her Price Charming got lost somewhere or decided to settle for another less complicated, less stuborn, less independent princess. Sometimes she doesnt know where she's going until she gets there. She hasnt got it all figured out.... for from it, in fact. But she loves God and she loves to dance, and she is her own better half. The bravest woman I know? She is the reasons I do what I do She is The Single Woman She's me. And she's you. -The Single Woman