“Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand. If you are her man, she will talk to you until there just aren’t any more words left to say, encourage you when you’re at rock bottom and think there just isn’t any way out, hold you in her arms when you’re sick, and laugh with you when you’re up. And if you’re her man and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you?—she will shine you up when you’re dusty, encourage you when you’re down, defend you even when she’s not so sure you were right, and hang on your every word, even when you’re not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends say you’re no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relationship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything she’s done to convince you she’s The One just isn’t good enough.
That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. ”
Steve Harvey
Monday, March 25, 2013
THIS WILL MAKE ANYONE SMILE
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 Beers.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class ...began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was
Full.
They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full..
The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed..
'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car..
The sand is everything else---the small stuff.
'If you put
The sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children.
Spend time with your parents.
Visit with grandparents.
Take your spouse out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter.
Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.'
The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.See More
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class ...began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was
Full.
They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full..
The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed..
'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car..
The sand is everything else---the small stuff.
'If you put
The sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children.
Spend time with your parents.
Visit with grandparents.
Take your spouse out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter.
Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.'
The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.See More
Friday, March 22, 2013
Enough is Enough
Another empty promise
A good intention from the start
You failed to mention
Our love could be this hard
I'm tired of talking
Don't have nothing left to say
Well maybe sometime
We'll sift through the ashes one day
I can't lean on you 'cause I fall right over
Can't count on you, it doesn't add up
I see we're through and the truth is pretty sober
This is going nowhere enough is enough
The hardest part in my choice to leave
Was not quite knowing what I'd achieve
But now I know I can be stronger on my own
That's what sleepless nights and only God have shown
I can't lean on you 'cause I fall right over
Can't count on you it doesn't add up
I see we're through and the truth is pretty sober
This is going nowhere enough is enough
Well I made up my mind I won't have a change of heart
And I've removed myself from every single part of you
I can't lean on you
I can't count on you
I see we're through
enough is enough
A good intention from the start
You failed to mention
Our love could be this hard
I'm tired of talking
Don't have nothing left to say
Well maybe sometime
We'll sift through the ashes one day
I can't lean on you 'cause I fall right over
Can't count on you, it doesn't add up
I see we're through and the truth is pretty sober
This is going nowhere enough is enough
The hardest part in my choice to leave
Was not quite knowing what I'd achieve
But now I know I can be stronger on my own
That's what sleepless nights and only God have shown
I can't lean on you 'cause I fall right over
Can't count on you it doesn't add up
I see we're through and the truth is pretty sober
This is going nowhere enough is enough
Well I made up my mind I won't have a change of heart
And I've removed myself from every single part of you
I can't lean on you
I can't count on you
I see we're through
enough is enough
Friday, March 15, 2013
Always KEEP IT POSTIVE
I don't know if I know how to hold on to anything. In the end, I always end up letting go because I'm scared. I have spent plenty of time building this complex series of booby traps so that nobody would ever get too close. Maybe my heart is too weak to handle the disappointment again.
I know I will continue to hid behind this wall and remain strong, until someone is stronger and break them down. I will never let the heartache or pain concur me. Ill always smile and Ill always be fine! Someday, we will forget the hurt, the reasons we cried, and who caused the pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and on their own time. Believe that love is out there. And always believe that dreams come true everyday, because they do. Don't let one bad day make you feel like you have a bad life. Without bad days, how would you be able to know what a good day is like? Be grateful for these bad days, it means a good day is right around the corner! :)
I know I will continue to hid behind this wall and remain strong, until someone is stronger and break them down. I will never let the heartache or pain concur me. Ill always smile and Ill always be fine! Someday, we will forget the hurt, the reasons we cried, and who caused the pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and on their own time. Believe that love is out there. And always believe that dreams come true everyday, because they do. Don't let one bad day make you feel like you have a bad life. Without bad days, how would you be able to know what a good day is like? Be grateful for these bad days, it means a good day is right around the corner! :)
If....
If you're going to stay, stay forever. If you're going to leave, leave today. If you're going to change, change for the better. And if you're going to talk, make sure you mean what you say.
Thursday, March 14, 2013
KIP
You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret to your success is found in your daily routine. Wake up everyday & ask yourself, how bad do you want it? How much are you willing to put forth the effort into things and people you want and need in your life? Nothing great comes with out effort. You cant reach anything new if your hands are still full of yesterdays junk. Even if the path is blurry, keep walking. You'll focus in when you know what you want. The picture of your life will be crystal clear! After all, its not the first chapter of our lives that shows how well we ran this incredible race. So smile, laugh, forgive & believe. Over & over, Again & again.
Keep It Postive
Friends give the greatest advice!
Keep It Postive
Friends give the greatest advice!
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