BE POSITIVE!!!!

Always something to keep in mind is… don’t allow yourself to have a bad day. save it for when you need it.




Of course you’re going to have bad days, we all do. we need this balance in our lives. Especially, after we have these days, we feel better… a little relieved. There are the “stressed school” days, “significant other is pissing you off” days, and of course, “PMSing” days. But the key is… dont let it get to you too much. Kinda like, “choose your battles” but instead, “choose your bad days”.



you know when you’re being overly touchy. so stop it. its very unbecoming.



take a deep breath and know that, just because you stubbed your toe when you got out of bed and there was no toothpaste left for the morning brush, doesn’t mean that the WHOLE day is going to be ruined.



I’m the type of person who always thinks, well, it could be worse, which is usually the last thing people want to hear. My mentality is… I slept in a nice bed, have clothes on back, and ate a good meal today. I lead a very good life... If more people could really start to think this way, life just becomes more enjoyable. It’s also quite infectious. Your good mood gets other people in a good mood. Also, living positively is not living ignorantly. There are “bad things” happening, but deal with them one issue at a time. Don’t overwhelm yourself.



Yes, people have there ups and downs, happy and sad moments, and it’s all healthy. But its only healthy if there is a balance of these emotions. This is something I strive for in my life…



So I stubbed my toe when I got out of bed, I rubbed it. There was no toothpaste for the morning brush, I found mouthwash. Work it out… I’m not going to let these things get to me. And BAM… “Hey, its free coffee day at starbucks!”… The day starts to look up.



Constantly appreciate what you have because tomorrow you might not have it.
(Reblogged from youwillneverwastemytime)

Tame and Wild....

What should I do about the wild and the tame?
The wild heart want to be free,
and the tame heart wants to come home.
I want to be held.
I dont want you to come too close.

I want you to schoop me up and bring me home at nights
I dont want to tell you where I am.

I want to keep a place among the rocks where no one can find me.
I want to be with you.
-Jeanette Winterson

Kisses

i think kissing is such a beautiful thing. There is something so powerful about a kiss. Not making out, not open mouth kissing, but just a kiss..a peck, or a smooch, hehe. where your lips are on another persons lips for a min or two, just sitting there as you two breath in and out, your heart sighing. The strong feeling inside filling you up, then when you pull back, you sigh because that kiss was so powerful, and it showed how much love you too have for each other. I love kissing more than anything, i never have to do any sexual thing again as long as i can kiss.I just think it is so passionate, so powerful. The thing about kissing is that everyone does it, whether its on the cheek, for head, chin, lips, eyes, skin, etc, everyone kisses. It’s something that connects people that really love each other. Making out is fun, but i prefer besos (kisses) i can’t explain how i feel about them, even trying to here doesn’t suffice to how i really feel about them. You kiss your little brothers fingers when they get “boo boo’s”, you kiss your mom or dad on the cheek, you kiss your sister or brother on the forehead in a way to say..things will be OK..i love you. It’s such a simple gesture..a kiss..but so powerful and amazing. ah sigh. love kisses. There is so many different ways to kiss someone.




(Reblogged from dandel10ness)

GO AFTER HER. FUCK, DON'T SIT THERE AND WAIT FOR HER TO CALL, GO AFTER HER BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, DON'T WAIT FOR THEM TO GIVE YOU A SIGN CAUSE IT MIGHT NEVER COME, DON'T LET PEOPLE HAPPEN TO YOU, DONT LET ME HAPPEN TO YOU, OR HER, SHE NOT A FUCKING TELEVISIONS SHOW OR A TORNADO. THERE ARE PEOPLE I MIGHT HAVE LOVED HAD THEN GOTTEN ON THE AIRPLANE OR RAN DOWN THE STREET AFTER ME OR CALLED ME UP DRUNK AT FOUR IN THE MORNING BECAUSE THE NEED TO TELL ME RIGHT NOW AND BECAUSE THEY CANNOT REGRET THIS AND I ALWAYS THOUGHT ID BE THE ONLY ONE DOING CRAZY THINGS FOR PEOPLE WHO WOULD NEVER GIVE ENOUGH OF A FUCK TO DO IT BACK OR TO ACT LIKE IDIOTS OR BE ENTIRELY VULNERABLE AND HONEST AND MAKING SOME FALL IN THE WITH YOU IS EASY AND FLYING 3000 MILES ON FOUR DAYS NOTICE BECAUSE YOU CAN'T JUST SIT THERE AND DO NOTHING AND BREATHE INTO THE TELEPHONES IS NOT EVERY ONE'S IDEA OF LOVE BUT IT IS THE WAY I CAN RECOGNISE IT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT I DO. GO SCREAM IT AND BE WITH HER IN MEANINGFUL WAYS  BECAUSE THAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND THAT IS GENEROUS AND THAT IS WHAT LOVING SOMEONE IS, THAT IS RAW AND THAT IS UNGUARDED , AND THAT IS ALL THAT IS WORTH ANYTHING, REALLY.

May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you’re wonderful, and don’t forget to make some art — write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.

But I remain strong! You see me with a smile, you see me holding it all together. I take on the heatache and pain... I will be fine.

I am mad at the world. I get mad over anything and everything. I take everything people say to heart. Im daring the world to push me off a cliff, just to see if I can fly. I feel broken.

Thank you!!!

You’re the only person with the ability to make me smile without even trying. I want you to know that I am so very grateful for you. I’m so grateful for all the wonderful memories we have shared: all the smiles and the laughters. You light up my world and show me things I never dreamed I’d see. Thank you for all that you do for me and all that you have given me. thank you for being you.

Help yourself! Your number one!!

When we begin to help ourselves first, though selfish it may feel, then we can begin to help others. We must first try to heal ourselves in order to realize that we are much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. It is only when we lose part of ourselves it is that we realize what we had. And then sometimes it is too late but that teaches us not to dwell on the past rather to learn from the situation and not have any regrets. Although many say ‘think with your head and not the heart,’ I choose to not listen and just follow my heart. That way no matter what the outcome I know I was true to myself, the other and the situation.

Everyone deserves to be happy

She’s the girl that believes that what comes around goes around. The one that hopes for a better day. The one that won’t give up on you. She’s the girl that’s unlike the rest. The one that spent her days smiling, and her nights crying. She’s the girl that would love to be loved. The one that looks so damn strong, but feels so weak. She’s the girl that picks herself up every time she falls. And she‘ll be okay. She really will. She’s tough…and She deserve to be happy.

Listen....

When I ask you to listen to me,


And you start giving me advice,

You have not done what I asked.



When I ask that you listen to me,

And you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way,

You are trampling on my feelings.



When I ask you to listen to me,

And you feel you have to do something to solve my problems,

You have failed me, strange as that may seem.



Listen.

All that I ask is that you listen,

Not talk or do - just hear me.



When you do something for me

That I need to do for myself,

You contribute to my fear and feelings of inadequacy.



But when you accept as a simple fact

That I do feel what I feel, no matter how irrational,

Then I can quit trying to convince you

And go about the business

Of understanding what’s behind my feelings.



So, please listen and just hear me

And, if you want to talk,

Wait a minute for your turn - and I’ll listen to you.

-from a tumbler account